Ok, I have a 2.5 year old baby girl and a 6.5 year old son.确定，我有一个二点五年岁的女婴和6.5岁的儿子。 They are constantly telling me what they want.他们不断告诉我他们想要的。 “I want this, daddy! “我想这一点，爸爸！ I want that, daddy!” What they don’t realize is that wanting, hoping and wishing for things, just don’t work.我想，爸爸！ “是什么，他们并没有意识到，就是希望，希望，祝福的事情，只是不工作。 It would seem that most adults don’t realize this either, so it inspired this blog post.这似乎是大多数成年人都没有意识到，这不是，因此它的启发，这博客帖子。

When you want, wish or hope for anything, what happens is the universe listens… and you receive the feeling of “wanting, wishing or hoping”… you DON’T actually GET what you are wishing, wanting and hoping for.当你想，想或希望的话，会发生什么是宇宙听… …和您收到的感觉， “要，希望或希望” … …你不得到什么，其实你是希望，希望和期待。 Instead you get the feeling and experience of wanting.不是你的感觉和经验，希望。

“So, Travis”, you say… “How are we to manifest our desires then?” “所以，特拉维斯” ，你说… … “我们如何体现我们的愿望，然后” ？

Well, this is tricky… Instead of wanting, wishing and hoping… you DECIDE in advance the outcome you desire.那么，这是微妙的…不是想，希望和希望… …你在预先决定的结果，你的愿望。 You CHOOSE for things to be.您选择的事情。 When you focus on your decision and your choices, then the universe and God work in a different way.当您专注于自己的决定，和您的选择，那么，宇宙和上帝的工作在不同的方式。 It combines effort with your subconscious mind to help you FIND the way to make your desire occur.它结合了努力，与您的潜意识的态度帮助您找到方法，使您的愿望发生。

It is better to give your mind decisions and choices, as it can work FOR you, instead of AGAINST you as it does when you are wanting, wishing and hoping.最好是让你记住的决定和选择，因为它可以为您工作，而不是对你，因为它没有当您想，希望和希望。

Does this make sense?这是否合理？

This is truly “The Secret” to making things happen for you in this life.这是真正的“秘密”使事情发生，为您在这方面的生活。 Decide in advance.决定在前进。 Create the pathway and then walk down the pathway you created.建立通路，然后往下走的途径您创建的。 Everything starts in the mind as a thought.一切开始在心中作为一个思想。 When we then desire something, instead of wanting, wishing and hoping… you MUST DECIDE IN ADVANCE YOUR OUTCOME.当我们的愿望，然后东西，而不是希望，希望，希望… …你必须决定在推进您的结果。 If you remember this, you will be successful beyond your expectations.如果您记住这一点，你一定会成功超越您的期望。 No Wanting.没有希望。 No Wishing.没有希望。 No Hoping.没有希望。 Just deciding.仅仅是在决定。

It’s that simple.它就是这么简单。 Now all I need to do is to get my kids to understand this principle.现在我需要做的就是让我的孩子们明白了这个原则。

Successfully,成功，

Travis Wright特拉维斯赖特