by Napoleon Hill 拿破崙希爾

If you don’t want your life to be “messed up,” don’t fool around with those who have messed up theirs.如果您不想讓您的生活是“搞砸” ，不糊弄周圍那些搞砸他們。

It is a peculiarity of human relationships that it is virtually impossible for one individual to have a lasting positive influence upon members of a group of negative thinkers.這是一個特點，人與人之間的關係，這是幾乎是不可能的，為1個人有一個持久的積極影響一個群體的成員負的思想家。 Usually, it works the other way.通常，這些工程的其他方式。 You cannot maintain a positive, productive attitude if you spend all your time with negative people.你不能保持積極的，富有成效的態度，如果您花您所有的時間與消極的人。 Those who have wrecked their own lives (and usually blame their misfortune on others) are not the kind of people who will help you achieve success in your own life.那些破壞了自己的生命（通常歸咎於他們的不幸，對他人的）不是種的人會幫助你取得成功，在自己的生活。

Choose your friends and associates carefully, and refrain from complaints about your job, your company, or any individual.選擇您的朋友和夥伴小心，不要抱怨你的工作，您的公司，或任何個人。 Spend your time with positive, ambitious people who have a plan for their lives.花您的時間與積極的，雄心勃勃的人有一個計劃，為自己的生命。 You will find that their optimism is infectious.你會發現他們的樂觀是傳染病。