How to Invest in Your Children This Summer

14 04 2007

By Chick Moorman

My neighbor recently purchased a $400 sandbox for his young children. How can anyone spend $400 dollars on a sandbox, you might wonder. Simple. It’s a state-of-the-art sandbox with a swing set and slide attached to it. It’s high quality through and through.
With all due respect to my neighbor (who loves his children and has the best of intentions when making major purchases for them, I am sure), children do not need a $400 sandbox. What they do need is the experience of going out to the backyard with their parents and building a sandbox. They need to hold boards together while we pound and do the pounding while we take a turn holding the boards together. They need to get a sliver and have it removed and bandaged. They need to help us sand the boards so slivers are kept to a minimum. They need to rub shoulders with us, sweat with us, smell us, see us, touch us, and hear us. They need the experience of building a sandbox much more than they need the sandbox.

So the number one summer rule for parents is this: When investing in your children, invest in experiences, not in things. Some suggestions include:

1.) Instead of buying another stuffed giraffe for your children, take them to the zoo and let them experience a real giraffe up close.

2.) Buying a new fishing pole is fine, but using it is better. Take your children fishing this summer.

3.) Have your children seen a horse, touched a horse, ridden a horse? Purchasing the Disney movie “Spirit” is one thing. Getting in touch with the spirit of a live horse and feeling its breath on your face is another.

4.) Take a blanket and pillow outdoors at night. Count the stars. Look for satellites.

5.) Take a walk in the woods. Look for animal tracks. Notice trees and flowers.

6.) Play catch, shoot baskets, volley a ball or a badminton bird. Challenge each other to see how long you can keep the ball going rather than who can score the most points.

7.) Have a water balloon fight. Get wet. Get wild. Get silly. Get with your children.

8.) Catch fireflies and put them in a jar. Later, let them go.

9.) Go to a parade. Get there early. Stake out your territory with folding chairs and blankets. Invite a friend or relative.

10.) Pick cherries, strawberries, blueberries, raspberries, corn, apples, beans, or a vegetable or fruit of your choice. Get stained, dirty, and sweaty.

11.) Sit around a campfire. Talk. Listen. Roast marshmallows.

12.) Plant a tree.

13.) Write and send postcards - from home or from out of state.

14.) Clean a closet. Collect unused and outgrown clothes. Donate them to an appropriate charity.

15.) Take a trip to the library. Let your children choose several books. You choose some too. Read to your children over the next several weeks.

16.) Go on a photo journey. Allow each family member to take a set number of photos. Create a family album with the developed photos.

17.) Do loving service. Bake cookies for a serviceman or servicewoman. Mow the grass for an elderly couple. Pick up litter from a roadside picnic area.

18.) Go garage sale hopping with five dollars in your pocket. Give your children a similar amount. Come home when everyone has spent all their money.

19.) Walk in the rain. Sing in the rain. Skip through puddles. Take your shoes off. Take your adulthood off.

20.) If you live in the country, go to a big city and walk around. If you live in a city, go to the country and walk around.

21.) Check out a college campus.

22.) Make Popsicles with Kool Aid and toothpicks.

23.) Visit a post office. Mail a letter.

24.) Bring out old photo albums. Take turns saying, “I remember when . . .”

25.) Cut and paste. Staple and glue. Color and paint. Make a mess. Then clean up.

Let your children experience a farm, a skyscraper, a fire engine, a campground, or a foreign country. Let them smell flowers, look for birds, feed ducks, or bake cookies. Help them find a four-leaf clover, shuck corn, wash the car, or open a savings account. Whatever you do, remember: When investing in your children, invest in experiences, not in things.

Author’s Bio

Chick Moorman is the co-author of “The 10 Commitments: Parenting with Purpose” and is the author of “Spirit Whisperers: Teachers Who Nourish a Child’s Spirit.” He is one of the world’s foremost authorities on raising responsible, caring, confident children. He publishes a free monthly e-zine for educators and another for parents. To sign up for one, order a book, or obtain more information about how he can help you or your group meet your staff development or parenting needs, visit his website today:

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2 responses to “How to Invest in Your Children This Summer”

15 04 2007
Jack Taugher (07:16:32) :

That’s an awesome list. I think many people often get carried away by the quick result (ie: microwaves), versus that of the process. Like they say about pilots, they are 99% of the time off course but they still get to their destination. If the sandbox or any of the other items you mentioned can bring a new bonding experience to a child or even more mental stimulation, etc — what a joy to not pass over!

16 04 2007
Jolynn (11:56:27) :

One suggestion I have to invest in children. Invest 90 min of your time to sit with them watching The Secret movie.
I did it with mine, and it was an real eye opener! See them laugh though many similar scenarios portrayed.

In addition, I recently came across an interview by Bob Proctor explaining how The Law of Attraction can be accelerated. A very refreshing READ. You can go read it at

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