by Napoleon Hill 拿破仑希尔

If you don’t want your life to be “messed up,” don’t fool around with those who have messed up theirs.如果您不想让您的生活是“搞砸” ，不糊弄周围那些搞砸他们。

It is a peculiarity of human relationships that it is virtually impossible for one individual to have a lasting positive influence upon members of a group of negative thinkers.这是一个特点，人与人之间的关系，这是几乎是不可能的，为1个人有一个持久的积极影响一个群体的成员负的思想家。 Usually, it works the other way.通常，这些工程的其他方式。 You cannot maintain a positive, productive attitude if you spend all your time with negative people.你不能保持积极的，富有成效的态度，如果您花您所有的时间与消极的人。 Those who have wrecked their own lives (and usually blame their misfortune on others) are not the kind of people who will help you achieve success in your own life.那些破坏了自己的生命（通常归咎于他们的不幸，对他人的）不是种的人会帮助你取得成功，在自己的生活。

Choose your friends and associates carefully, and refrain from complaints about your job, your company, or any individual.选择您的朋友和伙伴小心，不要抱怨你的工作，您的公司，或任何个人。 Spend your time with positive, ambitious people who have a plan for their lives.花您的时间与积极的，雄心勃勃的人有一个计划，为自己的生命。 You will find that their optimism is infectious.你会发现他们的乐观是传染病。