By Cheryl A. Clausen 由谢甲克劳森

Are you really struggling with time management?你真的挣扎着时间管理？ I mean really struggling.我的意思是真的挣扎。 The kind of struggling that ends up in extreme stress because you’re missing deadlines, losing important pieces of information, scheduling yourself to the point you don’t have a free 15 minute period in your day.什么样的挣扎结束了在极端压力，因为你失踪的最后期限，丧失了重要信息，调度给自己一点，你没有一个免费15分钟的时间内，在您的一天。 I can’t tell you how many of my clients find themselves in this very situation.我不能告诉你如何，我的很多客户找到自己，在这个非常的情况。 They’re so time stressed they’re about ready to crack, and they think it’s all about finding some technique or trick so they can do even more.他们长得很帅，所以当时强调，他们将很快准备就绪，以打击，他们认为这都是找一些技巧或伎俩，使他们可以做更多。 If this sounds like you I want you to stop whatever you’re doing right now because I know you’re doing something else while you’re reading this, get a refreshment, come back, and do absolutely nothing else while you read this article.如果这听起来像你，我要你停止无论你要做正确的，因为我知道自己做一套做一套，当您阅读本，获得点心，回来时，并完全无关，否则当你阅读这篇文章。

This is the personal time management message you need to read.这是个人时间管理信息，你需要阅读。 You’ve created a life, a business, a career that you can’t live in. Unless you admit that now and make a commitment to yourself here and now to change your direction, you’re like a freight train headed for a concrete wall.你已经创造了一个生命，一个企业，事业，你不能住的，除非你承认，现在和作出承诺，自己现在在这里要改变你的方向，您像一列货运列车为首的一个具体墙上。 It will be a devastating experience when the impact hits and your world crumbles around you, but it doesn’t have to be that way.这将是一个灾难性的经验，当影响安打和你的世界一旦崩溃靠近你，但它不应该以这种方式。 If you’re reading this before your train wreck you’ve got time to make the changes you need to make to keep this from happening to you.如果你读这之前，你的火车残骸，你花时间好好考虑作出改变，你需要作出把这个事情给你。

The only way for you to gain control of your life, and your time management is for you to develop a life you want to live.唯一的方法让你来控制你的生活，和你的时间管理是给你制定一个人生，你希望生活。 Sitting there right now reading this you’re thinking you don’t know how to make things slow down.坐在那里，现在读这你的思维，你不知道如何把事情放慢。 You don’t know how to stop.你不知道如何制止。 You don’t know how to make things different.你不知道如何使事情有所不同。 All that is true right now, but you can know.一切是真的话，现在可以，但您可知道。 Take stock of where you are now in all aspects of your life.采取存量您身在何处，现在在各个方面的你的生命。 You have to have a clear picture of your current reality before you can understand how to get where you want to get.你必须有一个清晰的图片，你目前的现实面前，你可以了解如何获得您想要得到的还要多。 You’re where you are right now because you either didn’t fully plan what you wanted and therefore couldn’t implement your plans, or you allowed others around you to shape your life as it is.你那里你说得很对，现在，因为你要么没有充分的计划是什么，你想做的，因此不能实施你的计划，或者你不准别人靠近你塑造你的生活，因为它是。 It’s ok, you aren’t the only one in this situation and it’s very fixable.它的好，你是不是唯一一个在这种情况下，这点非常固定。

You don’t have to be a super hero to be a super person.你不必成为一个超级英雄，是一个超级的人。 After you’ve taken stock of where you are now I want you to set aside a couple hours this week to do nothing but think about how you want to live your life from this point forward.之后，你采取存量您身在何处，现在我要你留出一对夫妇时，这个星期什么也不做，但想想看，想住你的生活，从这个角度前进。 You can’t manage your time when you don’t know what your managing it for, when you don’t know what’s most important, or when you don’t know what activities hold your biggest payoff.你不能管理你的时候，你不知道你所管理的，当你不知道什么是最重要的，还是当你不知道这是什么活动的举办你的最大回报。 Right now you may be spending the bulk of your time driving yourself crazy doing low value activities that aren’t taking you anywhere.现在，您可能会花费大量的时间，你自己驾驶的疯狂做低价值的活动不是以方便携带。 You may be so focused on payoff activities that you have no time to rejuvenate and refresh.你可能会这么集中于回报活动，你有没有时间，以振兴和刷新。 You may be spending your time all wrapped in your work trying to earn a living.你可能会花费你的时间都用在你的工作中设法谋生。 To the point that your friends, family, and associates don’t even remember who you are.到如此地步，你的朋友，家人，公司及联营公司甚至不记得你是谁。 They’ve grown tired of asking you to do things, to spend time with them because they just get shot down.他们已经厌倦要求你做的事情，还要花时间与他们，因为他们刚刚得到击落。 Consequently your most important relationships may be in danger of falling apart.因此，你最重要的人际关系，可在掉下来的危险除。

Once you clearly know where you are and where you want to go the next step is to take action to close that gap.一旦你清楚地知道你是和你想要去的地方，下一步就是要采取行动，以弥合这一差距。 What do you have to do to change your current situation to get your desired situation?你怎么也要做变更目前的情况，以获得您想要的情况？ Open up your calendar and find the first place there’s some white space, and start there changing how you spend your time by scheduling appointments right now for how you want to spend your time.打开你的日历和寻找第一个地方有一些白色空间，并开始有改变你如何花你的时间，由调度任命权，现在怎么你想用你的时间。 This will enable you to get where you want to be, to live the life you want to live.这将使你能够得到您想要的，以活的生命，你要活。 Your train doesn’t have to crash.你的列车没有崩溃。 You can turn your life around right now, and soon very soon you can begin the process of creating the life you want to live.你可以谈谈你的生活周围，现在，很快很快，你便可以开始过程中，创造了生命，你要活。